Dear it's Your Big Day,
I am getting married at the end of the year and am devastated that my lovely nan passed away last year and won't be able to be there. I want to feel as though she is still with me. Any ideas?
Lucy
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Dear It's Your Big day,
I am not elegant and have a tendency to look ridiculous in photographs. I am worried about getting in and out of the wedding car and people getting a look at my rear. I would love to look and feel like a lady on my wedding day. Help!!
Jade | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day,
I are getting married next year and although I am very excited I am really worried about getting the wedding wrong. I have been to some beautiful weddings and everything looks co-ordinated and things seem to run so smoothly. How can I make my wedding day perfect?
Julie | read more
Dear it's Your Big Day
We can't decide what music we want at our wedding. People keep suggesting Michael Buble but that's just not us. Can you help us with some different ideas please?
Ann and Sam | read more
My fiance and I would love to get married abroad. We fancy staying in Europe so that our friends can afford to join us but we really don't know where to start. Can you help?
Jane | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day,
Please help my mum and mum in law are both insisting on wearing dresses in the the same shade of slate blue for our wedding this Autumn. I think this will make them look like wannabe bridesmaids but neither will back down. What do you advise?
Angie
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Dear It's Your Big Day,
I am getting married next year and am so excited I could cry! My fiance and I live together in Rayleigh but my parents live in my old family home in East ham. My mum thinks I should move back home for a day or two before the wedding and leave from their home with my dad who will be giving me away. I think it would be easier to get ready in my own home and leave from there. What do you think?
Donna | read more
Dear Its Your Big Day,
This might sound silly but worrying about making my speech at my wedding is spoiling the build up to our special day. I hate standing up in front of people and i know I'll mess things up.
Please help
James | read more
Dear Its Your Big Day,
I don't know what to do. I love both my real dad and my step-dad and don't want to hurt either by of them, but I have to decide who I want to give me away when I get married later this year. What can I do?
Sarah | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day,
Mum and Dad had a very messy divorce a few years back and dad has since remarried. I like my step mum and she makes him happy. The problem is that if she comes to my wedding my real Mum has said that she won't come and dad won't come without his new wife. I don't want to hurt either of them. What can I do?
Jane | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day, I have always dreamed of getting married on the beach, with a romantic backdrop of white sand and azure blue seas and my fiance is also really happy to make my dream come true. My problem is my family.Mum and dad are separated and don't want to be away together and my brother and his wife reckon they can't afford to come to our wedding. This is causing us so much heartache. Please help. Claire | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day,
I want the perfect wedding with everything to look amazing. I have chosen an ivory and lemon colour scheme and booked the perfect venue. My problem is that my fiance's sister is fat and I don't want her to spoil my photographs. She really wants to be my bridesmaid and I don't want to upset her or his mum by telling her no. Please help me.
Lydia
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Dear It's Your Big day
I am really worried about my fiancé having strippers on his stag night. I know he wouldn’t cheat on me but the thought of him touching a naked girl makes me feel sick. Please help.
Suzie | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day,
My husband-to-be has been married before and has two teenage children. He wants to take legal advice about how us getting married might impact on his estate and his children's future if anything happens to him. i find this hurtful and am wondering why he would not trust me to do the right thing by his family.
Laura, Essex | read more
Dear It's Your Big Day,
My fiance and I have been planning our wedding for ages but we still don’t have enough money to have the wedding of our dreams. We want our day to be really special but can’t think where we can make savings without spoiling the day. Please help.
Gemma
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Dear It’s Your Big Day,
I am getting married next year and there are loads of children in the family. I am really worried that they will be noisy and spoil aspects of the day. It would cause too much trouble in the family if we didn’t invite children and little bridesmaids and page boys will look cute in the photos but how can we make sure they don’t spoil the speeches and scream while we are taking our vows.
Please help
Helen
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Dear It’s your Big Day,
I have set my heart on a church wedding. I don’t go to church all that often, Christmas and weddings really, but I love the solemnity of the vows and the fact that we will be what my mum calls "properly married". My fiancé on the other hand is agnostic and is adamant that he wants a registry office wedding and says I am a hypocrite as I am not a regular church goer. I hate this idea but love my fiancé . Please help, I don’t see how we can get round this.
Maria
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Dear It’s Your Big Day
I really want my step sister to be my bridesmaid but she thinks she is too old. I will be 30 on the big day and my step sister is ten years older than me. I don’t think it should be a problem. In fact I am more worried about my three year old niece potentially running about and making a noise during the ceremony and I don’t know if she will stand still for the photographs. What do you think?
Laura
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Dear Its Your Big Day
My fiancé and I are working out our wedding guest list. We were talking with his parents about who we want to invite. They said we need to invite his Aunt and Uncle. However, I have had problems with his Uncle in the past. My fiancé’s Uncle has made a nuisance of himself to my sister and is very touchy feely when he has had a drink so I would just prefer he not be at my wedding. My fiancé’s parents are adamant that they are invited. Am I am right, and how can I respectfully get across to my future in laws that he will not be invited.
Amanda
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Dear It’s Your Big Day
We are planning our wedding for May 2012, but my future in-laws have not mentioned anything about whether they will help with the costs. I asked my fiancé to speak with them, but he seems scared of raining the subject. Do you think this means they don’t want to help? Should I ask them directly? I don’t want to cause any upset but we really need to find out.
Suzie
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